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Queense Skies posted an update in the group
girl talk/ support 13 years, 4 months ago Well i’m a pretty sweet girl but I have a hard time making friends in school, sometimes, because people seem to wanna be my friend, but when they are they are but at other times they aren’t the same as when I first meet them. Like i don’t know what i’m doing wrong and I always try to be a good friend. I also don’t know if i still say awkward things, because one day a friend told me that I say awkward conversations and since that day I try to not but it’s hard…I’m a nice person tho…
Mood : Confused
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Maybe its just because youre not comfortable with the friends you have and/or the people youre around. Maybe another croud or just try to loosen up and be yourself.
Ok i’ll try that and see how it goes, thank u so much for your help! What kind of people should I hang out with tho ?
Well, maybe people that have same intrests. Sometimes, I can talk to people easily and other times I cant. I just act, well, mindless. It helps me say whatever I feel like saying and people seem to respond to that more better as if saying whatever on your mind kind of like a topic starter. It helps for me.
If you like people that are scene, find people in your area to hang out with.
Remeber, dont be a follower to anyone. Be a leader. Because, if your a follower its not going to help you express what you want. And dont try to fit in without really fitting in. It took me around 3 years to find a group of people that like me for me. It wont take that much time, im sure, but, it might.
And again, be comfortable with people you hang out with. Its really up to you who you should hang out with. Just try befriending alot of people and whoever you like best hang out with the people they hang out with.
Hope it helped.
Yes it did help thank soo much! I’m gonna try to do everything you told me I think your right:3 Thankzz for your support! I will tell you what happens.
its ok i had the same issue when i was in school
it gets lonely but it gave me time to think.
if people can accept you for you then they really are not worth the time .
just give it some time things will fall into place :]
be yourself you should never have to change who you are for anyone <3 hang in there girl and remember were all here for you
Thank you so much too!! I hope it all works out<3 How do I know if people can accept me for me ?
you’ll know :] if they can they will stick by you you dont have to stick to just one click of people i never did when i came out of my shell i had friends from all different types of groups just be you :]
Ok I will! Thank you so much again for your support c: I will tell you if anything changes.
ok :] good luck and your welcome
Okay so I have this friends who told me in a text massage that i was so annoying and to leave them alone…then the same day in the afternoon one of them texted me saying that they don’t hate me and that they feel uncomfortable because they think I’m acting like someone I’m not…and that they believe I’m trying to hard to impress them.They told me to just to be myself. They are my friends again now but yea…
just just be yourself if they cant accept you for how you are they arent true friends. im sorry to hear about that. maybe try making some new friends? its a thought. i had a group of friends once that liked to single me out and say i had all these issues i got tired of them and found new real friends it was tough for a bit but it ended up being ok.
Ok(: Thank u for your support!
anytime :]